More than 7,000 marriages end in divorce or are annulled every year in Singapore. According to a survey, a quarter of married people are thinking of divorce. The fact is, a majority of these divorces can be prevented. Every marriage can work if we work at it using the correct principles and methods.

I will help you learn how to have a LASTING AND SATISFYING MARRIAGE.

And the key is to start right.


Compatibility Is Over-rated

Most Marriage Preparation Programmes will ask that you take a Personality Profile Test. Hence, couples has come to equate compatibility in terms of personality with marital success. For one, our personality changes, albeit so slightly, over time. And when it does, the couple need the ability to accept and adapt to one another.

Instead, using the Prepare Enrich Relationship Inventory, we will explore the following aspects of your relationship:

  • Communication
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Partner Styles and Habits
  • Financial Management
  • Sexual Expectations
  • Marriage Expectations
  • Relationship Roles
  • Family and Friends
  • Leisure Activities

The couple will answer the inventory online separately. Thereafter, they will meet with a facilitator (me) for three sessions (about 1.5 hours each) to review the report and to discuss how they can strengthen their “Growth Areas.”

Fill in the form below if you wish to START IT RIGHT.

Read Russell Moore on Wedding Vows and Wedding Ceremony.


The mistake that many couples make after the Wedding Day is to go into ‘cruise’ mode. The fact is, your marriage is on a slippery slope as more and more urgent things will steal your time for one another. This is especially so when the baby arrives. Do you know what will happen when you leave a house untouched for 20 years? Find out here.

As your Marriage Mentor, I can help you keep your marriage strong and satisfying. You will learn how to

  • Strengthen your FRIENDSHIP, the foundation of a strong marriage;
  • Make deposits into your partner’s EMOTIONAL BANK ACCOUNT;
  • Recognise a conflict;
  • Manage conflicts;
  • Repair after a conflict;
  • Formulate a MISSION for your marriage;
  • Parent as a team;
  • And more.

Fill in the form below if you wish to KEEP IT STRONG.


“You’re an easy person to talk to and someone who puts us at ease when it comes to sharing our issues. We like that you listen without judgement and that you help us think about what the real issues are and how we can solve them. We appreciate how patient you’ve been in listening to us and thoughtful in asking the right questions as well. We are so grateful to you for helping us through this situation.”

SA Lim, Wife